
Morbid? Yep. Rude? If the occasion calls for it. Brutally honest? You bet. I really hope you didn't come here expecting flowers and frills, because that's not what you'll find. This is who I am, and I offer no apologies for what I think and how I feel. I'm not asking you to love me, or even respect me; allow me the freedom to exist and be myself and may the same be given in return. I know the difference between reality and fantasy, do you? I'm firmly planted in the soil of reality, are you?
"A poor fool indeed is he who adapts a manner of thinking for others! My manner of thinking stems straight from my considered reflections; it holds with my existence, with the way I am made. It is not in my power to alter it; and were it, I'd not do so."
~ Marquis de Sade, 1783
I hope this explains my choice of professions a little better than I've been able to. My mind was made up at my grandmother's funeral -- everyone there at the funeral home was so kind to us, and they were there when we needed them. To be able to comfort someone like that and help them through their loss is an amazing thing. My family members and I will always be able to remember the good memories about my grandma now and not dwell on her passing.
And it really hit me hard today, because it's been exactly two months since the funeral. I lived with her the first three years of my life, she took care of me. We knew she wasn't doing so well --it wasn't a surprize, but that didn't make it any easier. Grandma always told me I was her little doll baby, and she'd go to her grave loving me, and that she'd watch over my from Heaven. I know that's true, and I'm about ready to cry as I sit here in class and type this.
I'm glad we have morticians to make people whom have been sick for so long look well again on their final journey. This is a thank you to the people who helped us in our time of need.
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The mortician is an artist,
He takes the cold, pale dead
Dresses them in fine clothes
Fixes their hair and makeup
And gives them back their dignity.
The mortician is an artist
Consoling grief with friendly words
Telling families of that "better place"
With a friendly smile, a warm handshake
The art of relief in time of loss.
The mortician is an artist
As I aspire to do
To give someone their dignity
To comfort a grieving family
To help them with their loss
People should realize -- it's all for the families.